It really seems like this is a problem that many guys (and girls) have.   And this is a problem that a good friend of mine has.
Her boyfriend see’s fit that she should be more submissive.  He doesn’t trust her.  Even when she goes out with her family and friends, he thinks that she’ll go out and cheat on him.  Now, jealousy is a common thing for girlfriends and boyfriends to have.  But having it above a certain level is just wrong. 
Just because she is “yours” doesn’t mean you get to own her.  A relatonship is a two-way street.  One person does not get to order the other person around.  In fact, a relationship is filled with the opposite: compromise.  If you have a problem with something talk about it first, rather than jumping to conclusions and ordering your significant other around.  
My friend feels trapped in her relationship, yet she feels obligated to do what her boyfriend says.  This shouldn’t happen.
 A relationship isn’t filled with obligation. A relationship is filled with choice. 
I really think other people should know this.  Too many girls and guys suffer from abusive relationships.

It really seems like this is a problem that many guys (and girls) have.   And this is a problem that a good friend of mine has.

Her boyfriend see’s fit that she should be more submissive.  He doesn’t trust her.  Even when she goes out with her family and friends, he thinks that she’ll go out and cheat on him.  Now, jealousy is a common thing for girlfriends and boyfriends to have.  But having it above a certain level is just wrong. 

Just because she is “yours” doesn’t mean you get to own her.  A relatonship is a two-way street.  One person does not get to order the other person around.  In fact, a relationship is filled with the opposite: compromise.  If you have a problem with something talk about it first, rather than jumping to conclusions and ordering your significant other around.  

My friend feels trapped in her relationship, yet she feels obligated to do what her boyfriend says.  This shouldn’t happen.

 A relationship isn’t filled with obligation. A relationship is filled with choice. 

I really think other people should know this.  Too many girls and guys suffer from abusive relationships.

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Posted on Thursday, 10 January
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