*Submitted by Anonymous.
This is something I continually must remember. I thank the submitter.
I am a very talkative person. I love conversation. One might say that I am very dependent on other people, and base my happiness on others. I love talking to people. I love giving/receiving good morning texts, getting messages in the middle of the day, and long phone calls. I think I love it because i seldom have any of these happen to me.
As a result, I tend to text a lot. Not texting, but giving out messages. If someone responds, I’m usually the person to say “hello?” repeatedly. As a result, many people find me annoying, clingy, creepy, and just weird. I dont deny what I did; I deserve to be called so. I’m sure other guys have had similar problems. it took me a while to realize what I had been doing.
Sometimes, it’s best to back off. It pains me to say it, but girls do like guys who don’t give them a LOT of their attention. Sure, a girl would like a guy to be there for them, to text them, but too much of a good thing is a bad thing. And a guy who texts too much or messages frequently is definitely a bad thing. You can say “you care” which is great, you should care, but she may not see it that way. You may be filled with the desire to text her 24/7, but that doens’t mean you should.
A gentleman knows when to back off and leave a girl alone. Clingy-ness isn’t always appreciated. I know, because I’m going through the same thing.25 notes
Posted on Wednesday, 19 December
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