This is a problem I seea lot. Mainly beause it happens to me. 
I hear gossip about how, “oh, this person does this, and this person is a this”.  And that impairs people from talking to them or getting t know them better and finding out if that person really is how others say they are.  
People today are so opinionated.  Heck, even i am.  But please, get to know someone before judging them.   Even then, they doen’t deserve judgement. We’ve all done some bad things in our lives. What makes us so special?

I basically was just told today that ___ didn’t want to hang out with me because of what her friends say.  Basically that I’m not cute.  And I’m creepy.  And her brother said that one of his friends said very mean stuff about me (which may or may not be true), and it made him embarrassed to be my friend.  But why feel embarrassed?  I mean, I’ve tol d you personal things about me, and you know me for me, not based on rumors or mean things said by other people.
In all honesty, I’ve heard bad stories before and during my friendships with the current friends I have today.  Some were passive, but some were very mean, attacking their character, based on an action taken out of context.  But why not get that context? get to know someone on your own before you jdecide they aren’t worht your time.  Who knows?  they might just end up being one of the greatest friends you’ll ever have.
Make your own opinions.
Get to know someone better.

This is a problem I seea lot. Mainly beause it happens to me. 

I hear gossip about how, “oh, this person does this, and this person is a this”.  And that impairs people from talking to them or getting t know them better and finding out if that person really is how others say they are.  

People today are so opinionated.  Heck, even i am.  But please, get to know someone before judging them.   Even then, they doen’t deserve judgement. We’ve all done some bad things in our lives. What makes us so special?

I basically was just told today that ___ didn’t want to hang out with me because of what her friends say.  Basically that I’m not cute.  And I’m creepy.  And her brother said that one of his friends said very mean stuff about me (which may or may not be true), and it made him embarrassed to be my friend.  But why feel embarrassed?  I mean, I’ve tol d you personal things about me, and you know me for me, not based on rumors or mean things said by other people.

In all honesty, I’ve heard bad stories before and during my friendships with the current friends I have today.  Some were passive, but some were very mean, attacking their character, based on an action taken out of context.  But why not get that context? get to know someone on your own before you jdecide they aren’t worht your time.  Who knows?  they might just end up being one of the greatest friends you’ll ever have.

Make your own opinions.

Get to know someone better.

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Posted on Friday, 27 July
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