So I have a close friend, who by the very definition of the word, is in an abusive relationship.   While it seems like the boyfriend is a “good” guy, from what she says, it seems like the guy is only doing these things to get her to “stay” even though she is fully committed. He demands that if she really loved him, she’d text him all the time and fight for him.  And she obeys.  She does everything he asks, and it’s never enough for him.  And yet, he continues to do “sweet” things for her just to get her to say yes to everything he says. He calls her names, but tells her he stays with her inspite of the things he calls her.  For example, he says shes a “slut”.  But he’s a good guy because he’s committed to a “slut”.  Also, whenever they have a fight, he thinks it’s necessary to take “revenge”.  i.e Putting a picture of him and his ex on his phone.  

This isn’t right.  In her mind, she sees her self as the problem.  The bad guy.  
A real boyfriend does things for his girl because wants to. Because he loves her.  He does not ask for anything in return for what he does.  He does not ask her to do something she doesn’t want to do.  He does not call her names.  He does not take revenge after a fight. 
Reblog to let others know how a real boyfriend should act.  

So I have a close friend, who by the very definition of the word, is in an abusive relationship.   While it seems like the boyfriend is a “good” guy, from what she says, it seems like the guy is only doing these things to get her to “stay” even though she is fully committed. He demands that if she really loved him, she’d text him all the time and fight for him.  And she obeys.  She does everything he asks, and it’s never enough for him.  And yet, he continues to do “sweet” things for her just to get her to say yes to everything he says. He calls her names, but tells her he stays with her inspite of the things he calls her.  For example, he says shes a “slut”.  But he’s a good guy because he’s committed to a “slut”.  Also, whenever they have a fight, he thinks it’s necessary to take “revenge”.  i.e Putting a picture of him and his ex on his phone.  

This isn’t right.  In her mind, she sees her self as the problem.  The bad guy.  

A real boyfriend does things for his girl because wants to. Because he loves her.  He does not ask for anything in return for what he does.  He does not ask her to do something she doesn’t want to do.  He does not call her names.  He does not take revenge after a fight. 

Reblog to let others know how a real boyfriend should act.  

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